“Only those who can see the invisible, can do the impossible.” ~ Jeffrey Fry ~
I believe in radical responsibility. If it’s broke, fix it. If you don’t like it, change it. If you can’t change it, change your attitude. We spend so much unnecessary time explaining all the reasons we can’t do something, that if we put half that energy into figuring out how to do it we might actually get something done around here. It’s easier to blame the baby, our husband, the economy, our shitty boss and everything else outside of our control then it is to say “I haven’t made it a priority and that’s why I don’t have it.”
If you believe you are in control of your life, you’ll find a way, if not, you’ll find an excuse.
It’s perfectly okay to decide something isn’t a priority. In fact, by definition, everything cannot be a priority at the same time. No one is suggesting you do it all at once, but far too many of us throw our hands up, stay stuck, and then lament over what could have been if only life were different. If only our parents were better, if only our spouse made more money, if only we didn’t have so many kids in so many activities, if only we had relatives nearby to help, if only, if only, if only.
How about this…if only you could see that you are the only one keeping you from what you want.
If only you would understand that your lack of belief in yourself and what’s possible is holding you back
If only you would ask “how CAN I make this happen” instead of focusing on why it can’t work.
If only momma.
If you want something, it’s your job to figure it out. It’s your job to make it happen. If you don’t want to do that, then stop pretending it’s a priority when it clearly isn’t. Stop pointing fingers at everyone else who has what you don’t, believing it was easier for them or somehow fell into their laps and acknowledge that you just aren’t willing to do what it takes.
Everything I have ever set out to achieve in my adult life, I’ve achieved.
I don’t say this to brag. I say this because getting shit done is just who I am these days, because I’ve outgrown my own bullshit. I was tired of my story. I was just tired of the same old complaints, the same old reasons why things couldn’t happen. I was tired of the “I cant’s” and the “if onlys” and “not me”.
Aren’t you tired?
Are you tired of feeling like the life you were meant to live is out of reach? Are you tired of seeing other people doing the things you want to do? Are you tired of adjusting your goals and dreams to be in line with what feels possible?
What if you just decided to be really fucking unreasonable?
What if you decided to believe everything you desire can totally be yours?
It’s time to get a little unrealistic with our goals….and then make them fucking happen.
Once you achieve something you never thought you could, you start realizing something pretty incredible. You CAN do things you once thought impossible. You are capable of finding a way when there doesn’t appear to be one.
If we believe something isn’t possible, then we won’t be open to seeing the ways it actually is possible. Our limiting views on possibility are like wearing a set of blinders. You can ONLY see what is right in front of you. However, when you start believing there IS a way and just has to be uncovered (instead of believing there simply is no way), all sorts of new ideas, opportunities, and avenues appear out of the clear blue sky.
I see it all the time with my clients. I’ve seen it in my own life.
Are you willing to fight for a life you love, to push yourself beyond your comfort zone and believe in possibilities you can’t yet see?
Are you ready to take responsibility for your life, own your results, and get clear about what you really want?
So what do you want? What do you really want? If anything were possible, if you didn’t have to figure out the “how” what would you change about your life?
Now tell yourself it is possible…it’s totally yours. Your job isn’t to figure out HOW. Your only job is to open your mind to the possibility that a “how” exists, and then start paying attention to the divine breadcrumbs that will lead you all the way there.
Ready for the next step? Schedule a totally free Momma Mindset Makeover Consultation to figure out how we can make your big goals actually happen. Consider this your first divine breadcrumb. Together we will identify your next big goal, see why it hasn’t happened in the past, and figure out a plan for making your dream life your new reality.